1)
I don’t mess around or play games. I don’t believe in them. I just want honesty. I’d rather wake up one morning and say, “You know what? I had a really terrible dream that you were fucking someone else. Can you love me extra today?” instead of getting in a fight about some stupid shit and then at the end of the day being like, “Okay, can I tell you why I’ve been acting like this?” I’d rather say “Heads up” than “I’m sorry” later. Your relationship is supposed to be the safe place.
| — | John Mayer on the secret to having a good relationship (source:tumblr) |
2)
You know what? I am glad you held back the secret till you were sure about us. Because this is such a huge thing to you, i don't want you to get yourself hurt. You asked me if this will affect my feelings towards you. Thinking that i might be mad at you for not letting me know for all these years we have been friends. My answer is no. & i swear i mean it. We all have secrets that we hold so close to our heart. Secrets that we will never share no matter how close we are to someone. So who am i to be mad at you.
3)
You gave me courage to move on with life. To try things out. To give it a try.
& even though nothing in life can be predicted. I believe this will be worth it.
4)
Thanks to all the alcohol that night, we get to understand each other better.
I am really thankful for the heartfelt words. I would probably never hear it from you if there wasn't any alcohol. You don't know how much all those mean to me.
5)
Something i would like to say to my future daughter (if i do have)
